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As promised, here is the follow up to last week’s “Lesbian Sex 101” column! This week we are looking at the top four lesbian sex positions. These positions were chosen based on a combination of Internet popularity, as well as my own personal preference, so they do not reflect all lesbians.

“Cuming” in at number four is the rocket (cosmopolitan.com). The rocket is what most people would commonly refer to as sitting on your partners face. This position is great for orally stimulating your partner – it also gives your partner the opportunity to be more interactive with you. If your partner has long enough arms or is reasonably flexible they may even want to show their gratitude by rubbing your clitoris at the same time.

In at number three is the traditional missionary position because, lesbi-honest, who doesn’t love a classic? Now I know what you are thinking, “hey, lesbians can’t do the missionary position, they don’t have a penis.” Well I’m sorry to disappoint you but a penis is NOT necessary for great sex. This position involves one of you being on your back while the other is placed in between their partner’s legs. There are two ways which you can do this position, the first is as an alternative to scissoring. As I mentioned last week, grinding is a great way to stimulate the clitoris so if you don’t like penetration, and scissoring is a bit awkward for you, the missionary position is great for grinding up against your partner. The second alternative is by using a strap-on. This means that the receiver can be either on top or on the bottom, or if you both like penetration and don’t want to wait for your turn you can use a double-ended strap-on. This position is perfect for people who like face-to-face intimacy. It is also perfect for those that like to be in control as you can wrap your legs around your partner if you want them to be closer or move them further apart if you want to give them a little bit more freedom.

Slipping into second place is the sublime caress (sofeminine.co.uk), which is ideal for those sexy shower moments. While both of you are standing face to face, have your partner put one leg up on a stable resting place. From here the possibilities are endless! You can stimulate your partner’s breasts with your mouth, stimulate their vagina or, if you are so inclined, stimulate their anus. This position is great for closeness and for those who want deeper penetration.

Finally, the moment you have been waiting for – the climax of the evening, shall we say? The winner of the top lesbian sex position is the ride ‘em cowgirl (cosmopolitan.com). This position involves one person lying on their back while the other straddles their leg or pelvic bone in order to stimulate the clitoris. There are many variations of this position and you can be either facing your partner or have your back to them. You can even spice this position up by placing a dildo or strap-on on your partner’s leg. Like most other positions you can return the favour by stimulating your partner with either your fingers or with a toy of their choosing at the same time. This position is perfect for those who want to try orgasming together – yes, ladies and gentlemen, it is possible.